Boyfriend (BF): Are you playing DotA right now? Ria (R): No, why? BF: Ok. I don't want to disturb you if you're playing. R: Ahhhh.... I'm not playing. Maybe later. BF: Ah, ok. Me, I'm going to play already. Text you later. R: LOL! Oh, diba? The bf is sooo sneaky! Kunyari he does not want to disturb me, turns out he's the one who does not want to be disturbed. HAHA! Update: The boyfriend read this and said "patama ba yun?" (Was that meant to make me realize something?) HAHA!
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I Want to Buy a Boyfriend!
I was stalking visiting Friendster profiles and I saw this very funny shout-out from my cousin... {TABANG! = HELP!} It's a quote from my super cute niece/goddaughter Paige. HAHA!!! Too cute but also very disturbing. Hmmm.... at age four, I didn't even have a crush yet. My first crush was Ariz Jake Cruz (LOL!) when I was in grade 2.
I Have Learned…
How to love... unconditionally... To be honest... To be patient... To be selfless... To be true to myself... To be grateful... To take risks... To feel... To care deeply... To open up... To give... To receive... To hope, but not expect... To ask, but not demand... That there are no guarantees... That everything, every little thing, matters... That perfection is unattainable... In this imperfect world, we can only hope to find the person whose imperfections we can accept and love, and who, in return, can also accept and love our imperfections.
Another Break-Up Post
It has been said before... and no matter how hard we try not to make it true... it is a fact... Love is never enough. Two people can love each other sincerely and yet not be together... because we live in a world where distance matters, where time matters, where even money matters... work and stress take its toll, life happens... SHIT happens. No matter how much you try to make it work, it just does not happen the way you want it to happen. I do not feel bitterness, no more pain... only sadness. I was never angry, only frustrated. We didn't break up because of differences. It wasn't because of a misunderstanding. We just knew, understood that we would be better off without the relationship, without the commitment, without the expectations, without the complications. A lot of people never understood our relationship. It didn't make sense to them. But it did to us. And that's what mattered to us. But it became difficult... we didn't live in a bubble that rendered us immune to the realities, and holding on to the relationship became a struggle. But we are happy. It still doesn't make sense to most people, but…
Single Again
We didn't fight, we didn't have any misunderstandings. It just had to happen. Long distance relationships are hard. Ours was made more complicated by personal problems, both his and mine. We thought it would not be as hard breaking up as friends. But it is... it's hard and painful. But it had to happen. Blogging about it seems hard. It makes things seem real and final. But I have to. This is one part of me, of my life I have to share. For now, this is all I can say. But expect more drama and emo in the coming days.