On Singlehood {again}

Ok so… people have been asking me why I don’t have a boyfriend. I really, really, really don’t know the answer to that. Maybe they should ask the guys around me. I do have a lot of guy friends. But I don’t have a boyfriend. Do I want one? Probably… not.

Ang dali lang magka-boyfriend no… kung gugustuhin talaga. Daming pwedeng landiin. Daming pwede utuin, ialipin, at patulan. The question is… What kind of boyfriend do I want? My real problem, I think, is I don’t seem to meet the kind of guys I’d want to date.

Why? Because I don’t have a social life. My life consists of work, hanging out with cousins, work, DoTA, work, internet surfing, work… you get the idea. Apparently, guys aren’t keen on approaching girls who hang out with other guys, or with their cousins. And… yeah, I do meet a lot of guys through the internet and through DoTA… sadly, they’re not my type. HAHA! No offense to my internet and DoTA friends. 😀 And most of my workmates are females.

Moreover, I’m a snob. Yup, more than a dozen guys have told me they were either annoyed or scared of me when they first met me. HAHA!!! I guess my force field is still very much active…

ANYWAY, what’s my point? I don’t have one… really. Just an unapologetic explanation of why I’m single. I probably don’t CONSCIOUSLY choose to be single, but that’s how it is for me… so until I meet that elusive guy who is willing to put up with me and all my craziness… it’s the single life for me. And it’s not that bad you know… save for those moments when I badly need somebody to boss around… then again, maybe what I need is not a boyfriend but a slave.

{BOREDOM SUCKS!}

0 thoughts on “On Singlehood {again}

  1. Well there is no point looking for the right one if you ask me. Usually love happens when you stop searching for it 🙂

  2. How about at work?

    it is wrong to think that guys do not fall for girls who hang around with boys… maliban na lang kung nakikitagay ka sa inuman.

  3. Pareha diay ta ‘day. Single pa sab ko. I am already 33, and i havent had any girlfriend in the last 12 years or so.

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